Do Women Have the Same Sex Drive as Men? The Honest Truth
Hey, everyone! It’s Earnest Mann here, and today I’m addressing a hot topic: sex drives. Specifically, whether women's libido matches men's. This episode stems from a thoughtful question sent by Scott, who wanted the straight-up truth. Spoiler alert: the answer is a resounding no. Let me explain why.
Understanding the Libido Gap Between Men and Women
Men’s and women’s sex drives are fundamentally different. While men often operate on a “binary system”—on or off—women’s approach to intimacy is influenced by numerous factors, including social, emotional, and practical elements. From the cultural landscape shaped by feminism to the practical needs tied to relationships, women’s libidos aren’t comparable to the stereotypical male urgency for intimacy.
The Realities of Sexual Dynamics in Society
Societal shifts, like the rise of feminism and empowerment movements, reveal contrasts in sexual behaviors. While women advocate independence, their sexual desires remain complex and context-driven. Men, however, tend to have a more straightforward approach. My analysis dives into why men and women perceive and express their sexual needs differently. Men’s libido, fueled by fewer emotional and societal constraints, starkly contrasts with the careful and often calculated decisions women make around intimacy.
Why This Matters for Relationships
Acknowledging the differences in libido can improve relationship dynamics. By understanding each other's drives, we can avoid miscommunication and unrealistic expectations. Tune in for more nuanced takes on this topic—this is just the beginning.
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00:00 hello everybody how the hell you doing it's Friday we made it through another week I'm going to be talking to you today about sex that's right sex uh horizontal Bop corn holing whatever the hell you want to refer to it as that's what it is and that's what we're going to be talking about um I get questions and I just decided I would lay this out here so that everybody can hear and see everything as opposed to me you know answering these things individually just at this point you know it's taking more
01:15 time than I have so yeah I'm just going to address it all here at once so got a uh got a letter email from a guy named Scott and doesn't want his last name used that's okay and uh he wanted to know this simple question and um I think it's a personally I think it's a really good question do women have the same sex drive as men now you of course are going to hear every olist in the world uh talk about this and I'm going to what they won't do especially the ologists that get paid for this um you know it's not a lot of
02:12 difference in this field of uh sexual relations uh [ __ ] is concerned um in other words it's it's up for grabs either sex as a therapist will equally rape you and rip you of your money so that is why I I can cut to the Chase and for you know for the price of a cup of coffee nudge nudge wink wink uh save you a whole lot of trouble and all that so having said that let me get into this uh very short of the long is new okay no there are many reasons for this but I'm not going to go into the reasons so
03:06 much because they are Irrelevant in within the context of what I'm talking about here to answer the question that I was asked to answer if you're not a guy in particular a heterosexual male uh um yeah doesn't matter it's like a binary system one or zero [ __ ] quite literally on or off you either getting the nookie or you're not see it's real simple but as far as the drive they're they're not even they're in a different Universe now there are I could I could sit here for hours
03:56 talking about this and giving countless examples but I don't feel it's really necessary because I can state things that at least should be so self-evident that you'll instantly recognize them as well for what they are here's one really simple now as you know with the whole woke agenda and feminism and I don't know whether other is ISM that aligns with that lesbian ISM or whatever their thing is but uh you know the big women's movement um has been you know in recent years and recent Times Really boo on men
04:46 boo on men that that whole tough girl [ __ ] boss whatever you want to call it thing and I I need a man man I don't need a man and it [ __ ] just goes on and on and I don't need this and I don't need that yeah and until and again what I'm saying is not 100% all people I'm talking in very broad sociological terms here okay okay so but yeah until uh certain mechanical things need to be done or fixed or you know this thing or that thing and they tiptoe their ass over like the girl next door excuse
05:37 me I was just wondering making sure to wear something very provocative if I say if if got the equipment to do that and they do and they always do they always do if they're a breeding age yep they do been that way since time IM Memorial and that's the [ __ ] way it is as Walter kite used to say it's simply an exchange it's simply a difference because with the women who were doing that and [ __ ] bosses and carrying millions of signs they're not on the Crave for you know the Boney Pony like men are wanting the Yang I mean
06:31 because when's the last time you ever saw thousands and thousands and [ __ ] thousands of men walking around carrying Signs and Banners and screaming we don't need no Yang we're off with the vag no more oppressive vag for us yeah we don't need to be doing the horizontal Bop anymore yeah we we've got a hand man that'll take care of our needs so uh yeah yeah you you you [ __ ] just screw off cuz we don't need no pun Tang no more no don't see guys doing that because guys look at each other
07:20 and you know they got a few they are still at least that honest they don't need special preparations they don't need [ __ ] that is the difference right there you know whatever's handy back seat of a car a van [ __ ] you name it a mortuary a broom closet guys gals if you're listening think of all the creative places you have made love in your lifetime and maybe just maybe you might be laughing a a little bit of what I'm saying because you know it's true but this generally speaking refers to
08:07 men not so much women it's completely different so Scott so to answer that question is no because if that were the case and this is this is just the one the one example that I'm pointing out to you if that were the case you know men would be doing as I said they would be doing not so much with women now again okay listen up I did not say absolutely [ __ ] every single person okay okay but by and large generally speaking now and that's why that's why there's a huge difference a huge problem
08:55 in the relating because with women you see with women younger women women of breeding age you know despite they say it's you know it's partying okay they'll do some partying they'll do some you know they'll do the horizontal Bop then sure but by and large for them it's a very very serious business because of well it should be self-evident what the consequences are and so some of them want that some of them don't but um the answer the the this long-winded answer what I'm putting out
09:36 there is the answer is no so gentlemen out there young men not so [ __ ] gentlemen whatever the case may be I don't give a rat's ass if you just walked off a [ __ ] Greek fishing barge doesn't matter to me you guys should know what I'm saying is true okay it doesn't apply it's not the same and no comparatively speaking they don't have anywhere near the libido of a man in that way okay so you have to approach this in a much more practical sense I can go into this more when I have more
10:23 time to go into other aspects of this but um yeah all you need to know for right now is the long and the short is no they don't and sorry I'm sorry but that's you know that's pretty much the way it is so if you agree disagree don't give a damn doesn't matter whatever the case may be you know how to uh throw your two cents in on this deal and get a hold of me okay okay so if you would like to know more about well just about anything Park your ass here every Monday and Friday at 6:00 a.m. on YouTube or the same time in days
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